I was thinking about this when I read an article today about Alex Jones, which I think illustrates my point. The New York Times coverage of the court case against Alex Jones by the Newtown families seems to me to be reality-based, without any softening of language in order to make Alex Jones fans happy. Compare how they cover him and how they talk about Trump and it is night and day. Yes, I agree that the NYT doesn't like Trump, but they are extremely careful in how they talk about him, generally using very diplomatic language.
So, for example, in the sub headline of the article talking about Alex Jones in the news section -- not the opinion section, but the news section -- the New York Times describes the court case as a "trial to assess the damages done by his Sandy Hook lies". I challenge anyone to find me any headline or sub-headline in a New York Times news article from the last six years which labels Trump's falsehoods as "lies". I don't believe they've ever done it.
Note that in opinion or op-ed or "analysis" articles they sometimes cross this line and call Trump's lies lies. But that's not what I'm talking about here; I'm talking about the New York Times straight news coverage, what is supposed to be their best effort at objectively reporting what is happening in the world. That coverage is twisted by their futile desire not to offend Republicans.
There is a good example in today's paper. If you've followed the court actions surrounding Trump's theft of presidential and government documents, there has been some occasional focus on his claim that he declassified documents which are still labeled "classified" (which would itself constitute a grave discrepancy from established practice that declassified documents are physically modified to indicate that they are no longer classified), and that is why the classified documents that he took home were actually not classified. It is obvious that this is a lie as there is no record that he ever gave such an instruction, and staff members have not corroborated this claim. Some prominent staff members have even publicly contradicted it, including Bill Barr and John Bolton, people whose roles would have without a doubt made them aware of such a policy if it ever existed. There is no objective question that this is a lie, and that is the obvious explanation for the fact that Trump's legal team, although comfortable repeating this lie on TV, have never said it under oath in court where there are penalties for lying. So here are the New York Times' headline and sub-headline for an article reviewing the discrepancy between Trump's claims and what his lawyers say in court:
"Trump claims he declassified documents. Why don't his lawyers say so in court?"
"Judges this week highlighted the gap between Mr. Trump’s public claims that he declassified everything and his lawyers’ reluctance to repeat that claim in a courtroom."
Note the diplomacy of this description. There is a "gap" between what Trump says and what his lawyers say in court. This is classic New York Timesese: if you read through the article all the way to paragraph 57, then you'll understand the gap is because everyone who follows this case closely, including Trump's own lawyers, knows that he's lying about the declassification order. But they won't say it up front because they want to be sure not to rub conservatives the wrong way. And this is how they have covered Trump since the beginning, with great respect, and with reality only optionally available to readers who have the energy to read all the way to the end of their long articles. And this is how Trump is able to successfully obscure his lying from that very large fraction of the public that doesn't pay a whole lot of attention. It's just a loud dispute with people on both sides shouting their points of view, and who's to say what's right? Of course there is a "gap" between what some people say and what other people say. For most people it's too much trouble to figure out the reality, so they just keep on thinking today whatever it is that they thought yesterday, and that is part of how Trump's popularity among his base persists. The New York Times' cowardice comes down to their desire to be the party of record for everyone, right and left. Since they're frequently attacked from the right as being liberal shills, they bend over backwards to avoid the smallest appearance of being left wing, and this comes out in cases like this one where Trump is clearly lying, but they won't say so except in the finest of print.